Two dates: CBT Workshop on April 29th includes staples, sounds, predicament bondage and weights. Needle Play Workshop on April 13th 2025.
Nov 2024
Learning old school skills means you are working from the ground up and not just skimming the surface of such an in-depth subject as BDSM.
My Mistress Workshop dates for the first quarter of 2025 are: January 11th, February 15th and March 22nd. Come along and learn some old school skills.
My workshop are more like mentorship for aspiring dommes, lifestyle ladies and professional dominatrix. My monthly group Mistress Workshops have been running 13 years, however they are available in-person durning the week as a one-to-one. Same price, same five hour workshop for ONLY £250. Or I can teach online, if coming not my studio in central London E2 is out of the question.
Establishing a successful BDSM business is possible with my tuition and mentorship. I teach best practices in and out of sessions, website requirements and more.
What is BDSM, with regard to earning money out of a session, or the practice of Fem Dom? Is it just telling boys what you want? Or getting what your way? Maybe the relatively easy practices of kicking balls, face-sitting, foot worship, boot and shoe fetish? Maybe you learn from the school of Twitter? So, what else have you seen ladies do on there?
Twitter is where most ladies learn how to be a pro domme, a mistress, dominatrix, lady who performs BDSM practices. Where did you learn? Are you skilled only 10%? Or somewhere between 50% or 90%? Or do you have no idea?
Learn Old School Skills from Miss Kim Rub
Time and Effort: Learning BDSM comprehensively does require a significant investment of time and effort, which not everyone might be willing, or able, to commit to. Is it worth it? Yes! Read these testimonials.
Skilled: Some might not realise it’s so in-depth, as they found it on Twitter and thought that it looked easy. It is often an intense exploration of kink/fetish/BDSM that means you are accomplished. A deep-dive into all aspects of BDSM will serve you well.
Customisation: With a solid foundation, practitioners can tailor their experiences more creatively and safely. Giving the clients to real authentic experience rather than winging it…a term I have heard others use many times.
Creativity: This might involve creating scenes that are not just about physical sensations but are emotionally and psychologically fulfilling… delivering with theatricality, joie de viva, charisma…etc. Making a journey from their relayed wants, needs and desires.
Understanding the history of BDSM is important for several reasons
Cultural: BDSM practices have roots in various cultural and historical contexts. Knowing this history helps in the appreciation of how the scene has evolved. Partially it has changed because of changes in societal norms. For instance, elements of BDSM can be traced back to ancient civilisations…medieval cruelty, Victorian outwards-facing-reserve, and punishment, each period adding its own flavour influenced by the culture of the time.
New for me in 2025 is a monthly event project
Partnering up with performance artist and MC, Matt Skully. It’s called Salon Kinky and will address most of the themes on this page…with a large portion of entertainment. First event January 9th at a new venue on Hackney Road London E2…only opened recently.
Art and Literature: has influenced my BDSM journey, partly due to the fact that there was not other way to immersed myself into the subject matter many years ago. There was no internet, so I was very much influenced by, art, literature, and popular culture. Knowing this history can enrich one’s appreciation of art and literature that touches on themes of power, dominance, submission, and pain, from classical works to contemporary media.
History: The history of BDSM didn’t start when you arrived on the scene, but perhaps it is a product, and a framework of those that came before you. Whilst you might think you know best, perhaps it’s only a reflection of this time in society, the psychological of the masses, and the cultural impacts over time. This only comes when you have lived a major part of it! This historical insight enhances both the personal practice and the broader societal acceptance and integration of BDSM.
Time to get the diary out and start planning
In conclusion, If you’re considering diving deeper into kink/fetish/BDSM, my educational resources; Mistress Workshop, is the O.G. in the subject and has been for 14 years now. Only I have a regular monthly group workshop, offering ongoing mentorship from myself as an experienced practitioners of the arts of BDSM. Remember, like any other skill, continuous learning and practice with respect for all involved are key.
Furthermore, once you have taken my Mistress Workshop, I am forever your mentor. When you learn old school skills from me you can always reach out to at anytime for advise and help.
Nov 2024
Dominating the Social Media Market
Professional mistresses and newbies need learn how to establish, enhance and domination your online presence with the use of social media.
Learn from someone who has over 200K social media presence. That really is dominating the social media market! Check out my credentials, after all anyone could say that they can help you…however, statistics speak louder than words!
Blogging is another indication of how well someone knows their stuff and teaches. Go back through my blogs and you will see I have my own thoughts and a clear style, with which I write and teach. History speaks. Having been in travel related Public Relations and the Features Editor for Zeitgeistmagazine previously, I certainly know how to present a workshop to you that will be clear and concise.
Topics covered include all of the main social media platforms, SEO blog writing, and new for 2025; modelling tips, on-camera presence, plus a brief introduction to film-content platforms filing, promo and filming techniques. All for only £150 for over two hours.
May 2024
Two-hour workshop in-person for Latex Repairs. These can be arranged any weekday. Email misskimrub@btinternet.com or call 07778596047 for more details and to arrange a date.
November 2023
GET MY BRAND WORKSHOP AND STAND OUT FROM THE REST.
So many, but who are they? Are you one of them? Get a Brand Workshop and change that anonymity. No one is suggesting that you should be like me. However, do you think I have a strong brand? Do you have a clear idea and image of my brand? Perhaps I can help you!
Need more customers? Wondering why you don’t have them? Doing the same as everyone else, but not working for you? Ask yourself, do you have a clear brand?
Twitter, now X, is where I follow hundreds of ladies, some trans too – Pro and Lifestyle Dommes in the UK, a few Fin Dommes also! I have a pretty good idea of who is a successful dominatrix, and definitely know why…MORE
August 2023
September dates for my Back To School Workshops are on a Saturday afternoon and after work in the evenings. Full blog.
⭐️ Impact Play Workshop is September 7th at 6.30pm.
⭐️ Bondage Workshop is September 8th at 6.30pm.
⭐️ Cock & Ball Play/Torture CBT is on Saturday September 9th at 2.30pm. Blog here!
⭐️ Needle Play is on Sunday September 10th at 2.30pm.
⭐️ Anal Play and Pegging Workshop is September 11th at 6.30pm.
⭐️ Cock & Ball Play/Torture CBT is on September 12th at 6.30pm.
TICKETS. Buy the Saturday deposit ticket then text, call or email me to tell me which workshop and date you would like. Also how to pay the rest of the workshop.
These testimonials below, and hundreds more like them, are on a new blog on Miss Kim Rub website. They are all 100% real, and my workshop which has been operational for 11 years, is very successful.
June 2023
Finally, after starting to formulate my Cock and Ball Torture/Play Workshop over a year ago, it’s finally finished. Email misskimrub@btinternet.com or call 07778596047 for more details.
April 2023
REVIEW FOR MISS KIM’S MISTRESS WORKSHOP by Sheela Killer
Attending Miss Kim’s mistress workshop was a delight from start to finish. She welcomes you into her space (which is as much of an aesthetic pleasure as she is to behold) with an air of professionalism and approachability that made me feel at ease from the moment I stepped through the door.
Miss Kim is phenomenally thorough in her teaching, she provides an abundance of visual and physical aids as well as giving numerous personal examples; ensuring all forms of learning are catered to. She is not only knowledgeable but captivating in her teaching- she can take you from peals of laughter to deep contemplation in an instant. At times I was beguiled simply by her presence alone; the gleam in her eyes and the flourish of her turn of phrase. It is clear from her workshops that not only does she have a great wealth of expertise to draw from but a passion for the world of fetishes and kinks, a passion for being a creative and dedicated mistress, and most of all a passion for sharing what she knows and for educating others.
The workshop’s content is highly informative for both novices and those with more experience and above all she teaches you to be confidently curious, how to guide your own learning and discover your own style, character and methods. Not only does she give invaluable education for pursuing a career as a mistress, she also educates and informs you on exploring BDSM practices and understanding the varying aspects of what it means to be a mistress or a submissive.
I could not recommend this workshop highly enough. Miss Kim will not only educate, inspire and intrigue you, you will have a truly enjoyable and invaluable afternoon in an authentic setting with likeminded wonderful women.
best wishes and kindest regards, Sheela Killer
January 2023
Amazing Testimonial from Lady Rose:
“Wow! Where do I begin?! I took one of Miss Kim Rub’s workshops today and I will be forever grateful for the experience!
Miss Kim is a natural educator, full of knowledge, wisdom, creativity, innovation and experience which reaches far and wide. She delivers her content with eloquence, confidence, inspiration, variety and humour. She is organised and professional, yet relaxed, down to earth and in control throughout. She has a very open, warm and extremely approachable demeanour which would put anyone at ease – and it begins as soon as she greets you at the door and remains constant throughout.
Any questions asked of her will be treated as a quest for knowledge and responded to accordingly. Her wealth of experience is liberally shared and I particularly enjoyed the way she naturally veered on to appropriate asides to impart extra insight with exciting and interesting anecdotes before effortlessly returning to the topic at hand. There isn’t a hint of arrogance, or a condescending tone, even though she is fully aware that she knows more than you!
This wonderful lady is a tutor for the love of imparting knowledge to all who seek it – irrespective of the level they are currently at; she seeks to empower others, whether they are rusty and looking to get back on top form, completely new to the scene, or well seasoned and seeking to add something new to their repertoire and she does so with grace and poise.
Miss Kim will take you on a voyage of self discovery and encourage you to be an individual and an indomitable force as a mistress – in a style that works for you – not to be a carbon copy of herself. She is clearly not teaching for monetary gain (the reasonably priced workshops are testament to that).
There is no clock watching, no pressure, no moments of boredom or feeling overwhelmed and it’s clear that Miss Kim absolutely loves – no, ADORES – what she does (and has done for over 3 decades!). Her enthusiasm shines through with every topic that she covers and no stone is left unturned.
I left feeling a sense of euphoria knowing I had truly spent the day with a lady who has mastered her profession and utterly wants to see myself and others who go to her for knowledge, to thrive. I also felt quite smug that I had been imbued with a bountiful supply of information to enhance my dominatrix journey 100 fold, from one of THE best in the field.
I can’t praise her highly enough! Thank you Miss Kim Rub! ❤️”
December 2022
Really looking forward to the new year. Let’s start 2023 as we mean to go on…by taking control. I cant begin to tell out how many boys there are about there that are looking for a lifestyle girlfriend domme. Or perhaps you want to earn a bit more cash to go on nicer holidays? Or hate your boring job? The best thing I’ve ever done, was decide to become a pro domme…it changed my life. Let me help you change yours.
With you every step of the way, I am your mistress mentor…always at the end of a call or a text. It’s basically one class that will start you on your BDSM journey. If you need more help I have five two hour classes but you dont need to do them. If you are motivated, it’s all within your grasp. So pick up the phone and let’s chat 07778596047. No obligation.
2022 June
The Group Mistress Workshop will take place September 3rd 2022. Limited numbers £180. Email mistressworkshop@btinternet.com or call 07778596047 or read this.
2022 February
As a coach (and why I teach my mistress workshop), I try to connect with your own mind and heart, so that your experience has meaning. I can’t change your life, I can however, point you in the right direction to make your own way. Not everything I say is going to be perfect and insightful, but if I can show you something beautiful, you might fall in love with this, and want to be the best version of yourself. Read more…here.
2021 March
Mistress Workshop Summer Special for beginners, will take place at the beginning of July, August and September. Limited numbers £160. Maid Service High Tea. Scone, jam, cream and strawberries with tea upon arrival. CP demonstration by Miss Kim. ‘Maid’ for Purpose – group participation task. Half time bubbly break. Part two starts with a short quiz and a prize for the winner. At the end you go home with a ‘goody bag’ – crop, index book, cuffs etc. Filled with items donated by myself and from industry leaders. Dates TBA. Email mistressworkshop@btinternet.com if you would like to know first.
2020 August
THERE IS ONLY ONE MISTRESS WORKSHOP, I KNOW THAT BECAUSE I HAVE THE DOMAIN NAME.
I, Miss Kim Rub, am the ultimate Mistress Mentor. I will always be there for my ladies, as I care. I’m just a text, email, PM or call away. What I teach is universal, so my workshop will be just as relevant to the woman in Morocco, as it will to the female in Norway.
This is especially relevant as my workshop has gone online. The group workshop at my E2 studio will commence again some time in the not-to-distant-future. However, I can teach you now at any time, on any day via the internet.
My workshop is designed to help you find your place in your local scene, dominate the household, have fun times with friends, share passions with lovers, boyfriend, play partner, fiancé or husband. If you want to turn this into a profession then I can help you do that too.
Equally, helping you if you’re building an online career in this area, whether it’s to supplement your income, change careers, have a standby ‘just in case’, or just doing it, for the fun of it.
My story started a very long time ago. Over the years I have gained a wealth of knowledge and understanding of BDSM and fetish. This is built on 32 years a constant involvement with the scene.
My unique approach will show you all the possible ways to be, look, specialise, act, dress and perform. Because I dont believe there is only one way to dominate and we must all be the same.
Some would have you think that it was a formula that you learnt verbatim. Not so. Every woman, mistress, domme, dominatrix is different. Thank goodness! We have to be different because the men we play with are! I help you tap into the type of dominant you want to be. My teaching style is methodical, organised, inclusive and exhaustive. I’m full of passion for a subject that has fascinated me for 30+ years.
Teaching is my favourite things to do, out of all the things that I do. Nothing gives me greater pleasure than to pass on my knowledge, enthusiasm, creativity, humour and love of this subject, on to my fellow sisters.
Empowerment, I’m a great believer that every woman should tell her own story, so I don’t reveal who I have taught. Once the workshop is finished, each woman gets sent on her own personal voyage of discovery. However, I am always here for them. Just to say, many of these ladies I see every day on Twitter and other social media. We are in contact and sometimes not directly.
A little about my story; when I first started on the scene it was very much about the clothes; leather, rubber, thigh high bats, stilettos, chains and studs that interested me. I’m a fetishist. However, as I began to learn more about the scene and it’s history, I found BDSM fascinating and became heavily involved in that too.
I’m interviewed for magazines and podcasts often. I give talks too, recently giving one at the Bishopsgate Institute. They have a library and archive there, and I’ve proud to be one of the collections recorded for posterity.
I have a history unlike any other. I was Fetish Technical Advisor on the Preaching To The Perverted film. Where I’m listed in the film credits. I produced a fetish-inspired Christmas party for a huge advertising agency called WCRS. The spend was 200k and I was spectacular night. I’ve been invited to many private events held by the fetish scene Who’s Who!
I used to throw an annual free fetish party for the scene, as a payback for all the wonderful support I’ve had over the years. I ran the Fetish Speed Dating, as a free event for years. Now I run the Queen Bee Society drinks for dominant ladies to get together over a cocktail. “To give, thy shall receive”!
Teaching isn’t just about having a few ideas about BDSM, it’s having knowledge, structured approach and clear presentation to name but a few things. Check out someone credentials before to take advise from them.
Phase three on my Mistress Workshops will soon be a reality, as my techniques for each BDSM subject will soon be available as a pay-to-view on Patreon. New mini workshops will be Anal Play & Pegging, Wax Play, Social Media Marketing, Glove Drama and Impact Play. These will suit those ladies that already have a background in BDSM, whether it’s private or professional. It will also soon be available, at a discount, to those ladies that have done my beginners Mistress Workshop. This will roll out during September 2020.
2020 June 20th
It has made sense to me offer my Mistress Workshop every day. Now, we just find a date and times that suits both of us, so I can deliver the workshop that best suits you and your requirements. If you are only playing with a husband, boyfriend, partner or a select few, then the workshop will be around four hours and cost £150. If you are thinking of becoming a pro dommes and want to know how to set yourself up, then I suggest taking the five hour professional dominatrix class. Of course, you may not be ready to set up at the moment, as you may be a complete beginner. Therefore, I would start with the four hour and come back to me when the time is right to move to the next stage. Any questions, just ask.
2020 April 27th
The tremendous response had made me come to the decision to conduct the group workshops every Saturday until lockdown is over. The group class is for home-user and beginners who do not intend coming a professional dominatrix. I would like to encourage those who are going into the profession to book a 1-2-1, as this is more tailored to your needs. If you have any questions please just email or call me ANYTIME. Pick up the phone and dial. I’m not busy ATM.
2020 April 12th
Just got my first couple of testimonials for my Mistressworkshop.com ONLINE!
Workshop Testimonial: I had the pleasure of meeting and spending the morning with Miss Kim learning domination, discipline and desire in her Mistress Workshop. Definitely, a must for those interested or just curious about the world of BDSM. I certainly was and by taking her workshop, it gave me inspiration to want to explore it even more. Thank you for sharing your wealth of knowledge! Mistress Desi
Testimonial: I took a 4-hour online Mistress Workshop with Kim and I really didn’t know what to expect, but the time flew! Kim is so fun, friendly and informative – her creative and playful personality shine through, even online, and the support, tips and tricks she offers are very inspiring. I’d recommend anyone wanting to further their knowledge in BDSM topics to give her a call. Mistress Tess in Spain
2020 March 21st
ONLINE WORKSHOP
Due to the recent worldwide Corona virus, I will now be offering and conducting my Mistress Workshop via Skype, WhatsApp, Facebook or FaceTime. Whichever option works best over a 3/4 hour period.
The workshop will consist of the same content. Nothing will be removed to accommodate for the online status.
Email mistressworkshop@btinternet.com to arrange time and payment. My 1-2-1 Mistress Workshop is £180 in advance.
